<\/a>bizim olan \u015feyler d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya kar\u015f\u0131 en iyisi olmas\u0131n\u0131 isteriz. Bizim d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz en kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olsun isteriz. “Falancan\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, falancan\u0131n cenazesi ne kalabal\u0131kt\u0131 \u00f6yle? \u00c7evresi ve sevenleri” \u00e7okmu\u015f deriz. B\u00f6yle denmesinden de \u00e7oook ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131z. Egomuz kabar\u0131rda kabar\u0131r!<\/p>\n\n\n\nCenazemiz kalabal\u0131k oldu\u011fun da, ac\u0131y\u0131 bir tarafa b\u0131rak\u0131p, kalabal\u0131ktan konu\u015furuz. Bu ac\u0131m\u0131za su serpiyor, bu zahiri hayat\u0131m\u0131z da egomuz kabar\u0131yor. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n cenazesi kalabal\u0131k olursa, \u00e7ekemeyiz, k\u0131skan\u0131r\u0131z. “Cuma’ya rast geldi\u011fi i\u00e7in kalabal\u0131kt\u0131, sevildikleri i\u00e7in de\u011fil” diye de kulp takar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu gibi konu\u015fmalar\u0131.. camide, g\u00fcnlerimizde, cenazede konu\u015fuyoruz. “Benim g\u00fcn\u00fcm \u00e7ok kalabal\u0131kt\u0131, sevenim \u00e7okmu\u015f “diye seviniriz. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fc, mevlidi Kuran\u0131 kalabal\u0131k de\u011filse yand\u0131 g\u00fcn sahibi! Dillerde dola\u015facak! “az insan geldi” diye. Utanacak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlara rezil olacak. Asl\u0131nda rezil olan bu gibi konu\u015fanlar olacak Allah kat\u0131nda. B\u00f6yle bo\u015f konu\u015fmalar\u0131 b\u0131raksak ta, Allah’\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 kazanacak ilimleri \u00f6\u011frensek. Ahiretimizi kurtaracak ameller i\u015flesek! \u015eu hayatta, kendi hel\u00e2l kazanc\u0131m\u0131zdan, ihtiyac\u0131 olanlara verebilsek.G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte vermek mal\u0131, paray\u0131 azalt\u0131r gibi oluyor ama asl\u0131nda bereket \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor, ahirette ki “banka hesab\u0131m\u0131z da” birikimimiz \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor. Lokmam\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015fabilmek insana bu d\u00fcnya huzuru verdi\u011fi gibi Ahirette daha fazlas\u0131 verilecek. Ahiretteki huzuru d\u00fcnya kelam\u0131yla anlatmaya kelimeler yetmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fark\u0131na varmadan yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalardan biri de g\u00f6ze girebilmek i\u00e7in, \u00e7evremizi geni\u015fletmek i\u00e7in, vermek oluyor. Verirken zarara girdi\u011fimizin fark\u0131nda bile de\u011filiz. Bu gibi “vermek” bizim bereketimizi art\u0131rmaz, ahiretimiz i\u00e7in de bir faydas\u0131 yok ama zarar\u0131\u00e7ok!! Mal\u0131m\u0131z eksiliyor. Belki \u00e7evre b\u00fcy\u00fcyor ama bu \u00e7evre verdi\u011fimiz m\u00fcddet\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fck olur, veremedi\u011fimiz zaman, veya bu “cevreye” i\u015fimizin d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, yan\u0131m\u0131zda olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rece\u011fiz. Bu da bizim bat\u0131ni ve zahiri zarar\u0131m\u0131z olacak!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara Cenab\u0131 Allah, biz kullar\u0131na ihsanlarda bulunuyor. Bizlerin “derecesi arts\u0131n” diye, “g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131 sileyim” diye, “Ahirette mutlu ya\u015fas\u0131n” diye bizlere f\u0131rsatlar veriyor. Bu f\u0131rsatlar \u00fc\u00e7 aylar ve kandiller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00dc\u00e7 aylar diye bildi\u011fimiz Recep, \u015eaban ve Ramazan aylar\u0131 manevi bak\u0131mdan di\u011fer aylardan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn ve daha bereketlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mevlid kandili peygamberimizin do\u011fdu\u011funu, Mira\u00e7 kandili Peygamber Aleyhisselam\u0131n “isra” gece yolculu\u011funu ve “mirac” Allahla bulu\u015ftu\u011funu, ibadetlerle an\u0131yoruz. Beraat kandilinde bir senelik \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz de ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kaderimiz tekrar yaz\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Regaib kandili Allah’\u0131n rahmet ve ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131n bol oldu\u011fu, dualar\u0131n kabul edildi\u011fi m\u00fcbarek bir gecedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kadir gecesi, bin aydan hay\u0131rl\u0131 denmesi, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fczde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ibadetler, bu Kadir gecesinde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ibadetlere verilen sevaplar\u0131n bedel-i anlam\u0131na geliyor. Bu geceler ve aylarda, \u00e7ok\u00e7a ibadet hay\u0131r hasenat yapmam\u0131z, lokmam\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015fmak, akrabalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131ziyaret etmemiz ve kom\u015fu ve arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n halini g\u00f6zetmemiz gerekiyor. Bu gibi ibadetlerimiz bizlerin d\u00fcnya ve ahirette ki derecemizin artmas\u0131na sebeb oluyor. Bu f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 veren Rabbimize \u00e7ok\u00e7a \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr etmemiz gerekiyor. \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr iman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kuvvetlendirir! \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr bizi c\u00f6mert yapar! \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr cennetin kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar! \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr bizim iyi insan olmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar! Ne verirsek Allah i\u00e7in verelim!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hay\u0131rl\u0131 Ramazanlar diliyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Latife U\u011fur<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Man\u015fet gazetesinde ki yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015f olan yaz\u0131m. “Fark\u0131na varamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalar” Isl\u00e2m \u00f6yle hasas bir din ki, bizler bu hassasiyeti bilemiyoruz. Bilmedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in de \u00e7ok\u00e7a hatalar yap\u0131yoruz. Hatam\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131nda bile de\u011filiz. Hatalar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri g\u00f6steri\u015f\/riya. G\u00f6steri\u015fe \u00e7ok \u00f6nem veriyoruz. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda bu BiR numara! Hep bizim olan \u015feyler d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya kar\u015f\u0131 en iyisi olmas\u0131n\u0131 isteriz. Bizim d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz en kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olsun isteriz. “Falancan\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, falancan\u0131n cenazesi ne kalabal\u0131kt\u0131 \u00f6yle? \u00c7evresi ve sevenleri” \u00e7okmu\u015f deriz. B\u00f6yle denmesinden de \u00e7oook ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131z. Egomuz kabar\u0131rda kabar\u0131r! Cenazemiz kalabal\u0131k oldu\u011fun da, ac\u0131y\u0131 bir tarafa b\u0131rak\u0131p, kalabal\u0131ktan konu\u015furuz. Bu ac\u0131m\u0131za su serpiyor, bu zahiri hayat\u0131m\u0131z da egomuz kabar\u0131yor. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n cenazesi kalabal\u0131k olursa, \u00e7ekemeyiz, k\u0131skan\u0131r\u0131z. “Cuma’ya rast geldi\u011fi i\u00e7in kalabal\u0131kt\u0131, sevildikleri i\u00e7in de\u011fil” diye de kulp takar\u0131z. Bu gibi konu\u015fmalar\u0131.. camide,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1020"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1021,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020\/revisions\/1021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ilimvakfi.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}